Problem: Should Ron have resigned from his church immediately, or should he have followed his deacon chairman's advice and taken a leave of absence? Can you provide 50 words based on this article? When Ron and Kay married, Ron never thought about what marriage was supposed to be like. "I had just fallen in love with her, married her, and figured it would all work out." He failed to spend time learning about Kay and trying to understand her. He repeated this failure with his children. Ron did not understand the essentiality of communication in a relationship. Consequently, Kay felt left out and minimized. Although they lived under the same roof, Kay did not feel she shared a life with Ron. Communication was also an issue in Ron's ministry. Ron was the type of person who, even when he counseled and during his pastoral ministry, would tell the person what the Bible said and then end the session without any further interaction. Retooling for leadership God used the crisis in Ron's life to get his attention. After Kay and the children moved back in with Ron, he began to work on family relationships and how to lead his family.