Problem
Gottman Video I
Note- The woman who is talking about contempt actually gets it wrong. If she's the one exhibiting the contempt, it should be her husband, not her, who suffers immune system issues.
Following conflict in a relationship, couples often try to repair the damage. In the second video, Gottman talks about research done on these repair attempts.
Gottman Video II
Begin by naming and describing the 4 Horsemen. Next, what has research revealed about successful repair attempts? Based on the repair attempt alone, can you predict which will be successful? Explain. What is the key to a successful repair following damage to a relationship?