Problem
What is your most important relationship right now? What have you bonded over (self-disclosure)? What are the strengths and weaknesses of communication in this relationship? Use relational dialectics to answer this question: Which is the main tension you have to work through and what strategies are you using to work through it? How was conflict managed in your family/environment while growing up? Which styles were most often used? How did those early messages and lessons about conflict shape your current attitudes?